It is hard to break up with someone especially if they have not been thinking along the same lines as you. Your breakup should be done in private as tears and anger are likely reactions to the news. It is important that you not use email, telephone or text messages to break up. It is very important that the person you are severing your relationship with, be able to see your face and hear your reasons stated in a calm voice. Maintaining a calm demeanor and using a low smooth voice are integral in relaying the seriousness of your intentions. For more advice on breaking up visit http://www.fixorbreakup.com/blog/2009/02/16/advice-on-breaking-up.html.