It is a tragedy that happens in many families. Your beloved pet has died. If it had been an illness perhaps it would have been easier for the kids. There would be some explanation. Some kind of preparation. Somehow, the sudden loss of a pet is especially devastating. Nevertheless, this is a part of life. Dwell on the memories. Look through photos. Remind the kids of all the fun they had with Hagar. Even as you work with your grief and that of your children, you will need to look at another family member who is mourning too, Hagar's playmate, Popeye. He isn't sleeping when he should. He isn't eating well at all. The lure of his favorite treats don't work. Popeye walks around looking for Hagar. He is sad too. You can use this opportunity to teach your children about being compassionate. You may encourage your kids to be kind to Popeye. Give him extra pats on the head. If he doesn't want to play, ask them to just sit quietly by him. There will be times when he just needs to be left alone. He will let you and the kids know when he wants to play. Given some time, you will know when the kids and Popeye are ready for another playmate. |
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